Posts from — May 2006

Since it is a long week end, I’ll take time to post reviews and discuss my neighbouring blogs. 3 days of rain promised, so there should be lots of time.

Of course Alex and Suze, may not be blogging as much as usual, I think they’ll be bbbusy! I dropped in on Always Aroused Girl to see what she was up to. Guys you may want to drop in and find out what you can do with socks! Similarly, Desirous is doing her own thing for the guys, see if you can help her out and give her your point of view on a specific toy for Sir.

Madame X gets a scared in the grocery store as she discovers spike hair!

Headed over to Dzer’s, He’s nowhere in sight. Word has it, he’s been kidnapped.

I cracked up reading BubbleGum Meltdown’s last few entries, as in tears in my eyes. Read Spunk and Sparkle . Two different entries worth reading.

I drop in regularly on Blogstormz, to see it growing..Growing…GROWING. If you haven’t discovered this little gem, time to head over there. Up and running for just a little over a month, it has become a one stop for all. Writers update their links on Blogstormz shortly after publishing on their own blogs. If you write, it’s a great way to get exposure, if you’re a reader, chances are, it’ll become your HomePage(but not at the office!).

Hosted by Artfuldodger whose personal blog is The Secret Brain

New Stuff

Starting off with Tea and Oranges, done on Blogger. A classy piece here, done by a couple devoted to one another, discovering the inner workings of "power within partnership". Also recently reviewed on Fleshbot’s Sex Blog Round Up for this piece: The Tao of Dominance and Submission. A great feeling of honesty as you read the entries. Relatively new, since March, this couple’s blogging will be like discovering a new relationship. Ever so gently pushing the boundaries.

The following reviews were blogs I picked up browsing through Artfuldodger’s Blogstormz:

The Hanger, done by a Canadian gentleman is a good read. It’s a mixed bag of goodies, you get a little of everything. Along with the mixed bag, you also pick up the erotica. Being Canadian, I also enjoyed his references to Canada. Yes we do have a long Week-End!

Here is another big find, if you haven’t come across it! Lazy Geisha: You cannot be an erotica reader or writer for that matter without ever reading entries from this blog. Currently she’s working on a series of entries entitled Connections. With many reviews already attributed to her blog, her work goes beyond blogging. You can catch more of Nina at SouthCoast Pleasures. I also downloaded a music mix there, which I’m currently listening to. Tasty graphics, accompany the entries. Her side bar is filled with great references.

I don’t know all the blog days of the week:

• Monday           - ?????????????
• Tuesday          - ?????????????
• Wednesday    -  Cock Blogging
• Thursday        -  Half Naked Thursday
• Friday             - ?????????????
• Saturday        - ?????????????
• Sunday           - ?????????????

Are there really activities to fill up all the days?  I searched, perhaps in the wrong places, but I couldn’t come up with them.  Please help me fill up the blanks.

Now you say, why would I be so curious?  I was sitting there thinking that for the summer, summer activities and what not.  There should be a Wet T-Shirt blogging day.  Sure it could be part of HNT I guess or NOT.

Friday?  or Saturday?  I have it in my mind that it’s a week end thing. 

Here a few posts I picked up from looking around for blogs and Wet T-Shirts:

Too Much Information is no longer active, but this photo shoot was saved and it looks like a lot of fun!

Ain’t too proud to Blog has a good run of shots.

Here’s a Wet T-Shirt Contest Results posted on a Blog.

Wikimedia Commons has a decent shot.

Over all yes, you can find all kinds of pics on the net of Wet T-Shirts.  Entire web sites even.  I wasn’t looking for those, you can find them too, I’m sure.  The next step down was usually associated with contest results.  There were Flickr profiles, Webshot profiles, Spring Break…etc

So what do you think of my summer fun idea?  Am I onto something?  Of course guys can join in too, wouldn’t expect anything less.   Now I know it’s not summer quite yet, but if you want to start practicing that’s fine too. — What a perv I am! 

So far I’ve been lucky, but today my luck changed!  I came home to 106 spams on this blog and numerous on another.   I deleted them and went to work to find Wordpress solutions.  Within the first 1/2 hour I had about a dozen more.

I modified what I had to modify and like Magic, the spammer(s) is gone.  No re-occurrences since.  I carried the changes to the other site and Zap!  Gone too.

So if any of you on Wordpress need a hand with this, drop me a note.  The trick isn’t really on new posts.  That can be controlled easily.  It’s on how to turn off the ping and disallow trackbacks on the old posts.  In my case, hundred’s.

Anyway, all Gone!

We also host a couple of message boards.  The solution hasn’t been so simple there.  I have to wait and see a couple days in case they find another way, but for now, I’m Ok.

What’s a guy to do?  In this first instance, I’m talking about the early wake up call.  The name most commonly referred to here is morning stiff.  Perhaps you guys have another name for it.  The one that makes you look over at your partner and wonder if you should just go for the rude awakening and just jump her bones or just handle things yourself.  Alternatively, you can also just rush downstairs for a cup of coffee!   Ahhh, but that first stiff of the day!  What a purrfect start!

• Morning Stiff
• Morning woody

What about you ladies?  Does it turn you on?  Are you a morning person?  Do you really wake up every morning with your partner’s stiff on your mind?  There are compatibility issues here I think for some.  Not surprising, I found some articles on it.

Really nothing about romance here:  Just the facts.  I think I could have argued this one a little better.

So what’s the story?  Are you guys really horny every time you wake up?  Well not according to the following references.   From Go Ask Alice to SexDictionary and Everything2. 

There’s also what I call the no-reasoner.  That’s when you’re sitting on the bus for example and you realize you can’t get up to get off at your next stop.  Yes, you’ve been reading stock market, not erotica, yet every-body’s looking down at your crotch it would seem.   Funny, well kind of.

Ever heard of NRB?  I hadn’t heard it coined like that.

So what’s up with that?  <pun>

Have a good one all! 

More Canadians enjoying group sex

Read this article, if you’re interested in sharing your views…What’s going on in your city or country?

Hope you get spoiled, coffee in bed, dinner out - no kitchen clean up, lots of presies - flowers.  Just let it go today.  Don’t do shit!  Let everyone fend for themselves. (Unless the little gaffers are too young of course.)

What is it about high heels?

Perhaps you can add about what it is… Maybe it’s all of it plus much more.  I’ve always had an attraction to high heels.  Don’t get me wrong, I wouldn’t be caught dead in them.  Mind you I did wear them once as part of an outfit for a school play.  Not very comfy!  Some say, you get use to them.  I’ve heard that after wearing them constantly, you actually have a hard time walking flat footed.

But enough small talk, today my quest took me on an interesting search, I didn’t want to be on the commercial "buy these shoes" type of sites, nor did I want to be on the extreme fetish side.  Some of you have already done profiling on foot fetish, so I didn’t want to be there either.  I figured if there’s a high heel thing lurking about me, there’s got to be lots out there!

Starting off with the more tame but fun, go-go boots.com.  It may take some of you back to the 60’s.  Moving right along here, I came across this fabulous site called tsubasa.  Sure there were some graphics of shoes, but make sure you visit the 5 galleries.  The art work and photography, is worth it.  Certainly one that I will feature in an another entry.

I have been caught ogling at a woman wearing High heals, to which DW just said "Ho! She’s wearing her "Fuck Me Shoes"  Well people actually write about this phenomenon.  Read Scarlet Letters’ My Life in Fuck Me Shoes.  Of course, I’ve spent my fair share of time discussing at length and analysing on my own, why they would be called Fuck Me Shoes. 

It has to do, according to DW, with what the person is trying to project.  To which of course I have to agree , but not whole heartidly.  Some do wear them as fashion for example. 

I do notice, that the walk, which can accompany the shoes, has a lot to do with wether I’ll classify the person as wearing her Fuck Me Shoes (FMS)or not.  If her hips are slightly protruded forward and the walk entails the whole body, I’ll say she’s wearing her FMS.  On the other hand, if it’s at the office, more often then not, it’s worn as an outfit, not trying to convey that message.  The walk is usually a quick stride with a posture quite rigid.

Denim Fridays are  different; if the same or similar pair of shoes is worn on Fridays, the same person may appear to be sending a different message.  Like "look what I can do".

If you’re one of these people who loves to shop for shoes, you’ll love the High Heel Shoe Museum.  The links take you to just about everything high heels.  From designer art sketches to well done add to your basket places.  I had a good time there. 

Now I don’t know what the ninerniner weblog is about, but they do have a High Heel blog if you want to check it out.  Lots of goodies there…If you’re into High Heels.  I thought it might be a bit more exciting there!  Perhaps I was expecting a little bit of this!

One of the best commentaries that I found was from Erotic-Readers.com you have to jump a whole page down, the 2 adds for Simon scan and ZTOD.  After that there are lots of people sharing their views about high heels.

So tell me Yummy Mommies, do you have a favourite pair of shoes?  Do you  ever think of them as your Fuck Me Shoes?

This walk and these shoes qualify as FMS!