Posts from — July 2007

Here are a few peaceful images of my upcoming surroundings!

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I know, it’ll be rough .

One thing about blogging for an audience, followers or to keep your readers interest is you have to be a regular poster… and I haven’t been nor will I be over the next 2 weeks.  We’ll be in cottage country and I don’t think I can get away reviewing at the library much!

Let’s see what the rest of this week produces…  Speaking of regulars, have you been to The Secrets of a Blue Eyed Vixen?  Talk about posting regularly, fun stuff too, often accompanied with a tasty little picture.  So what’s a Vixen:  A female Fox, an attractive woman(Wikipedia).

Incognito Housewife,  is another hot spot to drop in to read and think.  I read a few entries, which means the author got my attention, or perhaps got me at attention! 

Gomourto is working on a blog for his wife to participate, presently he’s running Gomourto’s Erotic Ramblings  on blogger.  According to him, Blogger is easier than Wordpress.  Hummm.  I guess it’s what your use to.  I’m much more at ease with WP than Blogger.   Good luck  with your new adventure, and we’ll be sure to  keep an eye for that new link.

I like to go different directions, when I review.  I live in a multilingual city where English, is a second language and French is the first language.  There are many Anglo areas to serve the WWW, it’s a similar situation with the French.   So I ventured into the Franco blogue adult world.  It took me a while to get going but I finally touched the tip of the iceberg. 

The best one that I found is still up on blogger, but no longer active.  Cindy  Bi came to an  end  not to long ago. The content and the story line/lifestyle  is  hot.  This one was made by a Québecoise.  Here are a few more, if you want to peek.  Of course I’m also finding, that blog engines and blog hosting sites come in many more flavours.

Dame 

La Vie Intime d’une Bourgeoise Soumise 

Mignolli 

 Enjoy!

I’m having a good time roaming around U’r Blogs.  Some new concepts that I’m seeing more of, password protected areas containing posts and entire blogs that are password protected.   Humm, maybe I’m missing the point.  I guess you want to share with some people, but not the whole world.  Or maybe you’ve had bad experiences with stalkers.  For it’s like… Whatever!  (which I rarely use BTW).

With a header that screams I’m Not Touching You, Fully Nude Fridays, needless to say I was a little disapointed and curious.  So I ended up at the next blog listed, and it said click for password…and I’m patiently waiting .

Whatever happened to HNT’s?  I still trip along thew odd one, but not too many.  Seems every day of the week has a purpose to expose yourself now if you want.  I could always offer a part of my gallery? <grin>!

 So I sent a real email, instead of clicking and the email doesn’t exist.  So I clicked and got the opportunity to leave a comment and an email would be sent to me… patiently waiting .

I found this hot little blog while waiting for my password, entitled:  What this woman needs.   Lots of meme and meme links.  I have to go and educate myself on this stuff.  From there I found JeannieGrrl (it has canadian content).  The complete works with even a personal photo gallery that rocks.  Videos, audios and much much more.  Nice work, time and talent.

Finally, Your Cold to the Touch is just Sexy!  It looks like a new start for an ex-blogger…and here I was complaining about the lack of HNT’s!

Oh yeah, never got my Password for FNF.  I guess I’ll give you my 2 cents worth on it next time.

I joined MyBlogLog, if you’re curious, you can take a peek at the bottom of the sidebar.  Still kind of clunky setting it up as far as communities and tags.  Another blog toy!  Some blogs are about exposure, some not.

AlexSuze always on a roll.  Recently I’ve caught some video cam action over there, check it out!  Also there’s a spin off blog just for adult toys, so if you need any naughty ideas drop in and visit.  The fun part, is you get to read real people’s reaction about what they’ve just bought.  Not just the usual here’s a picture $9.99 add to shopping cart. 

Always Aroused Girl has a sparkly new home on Wordpress.  Very nice indeed.  Please update your links. 

Have you ever visited Sexualsong? A good find!  Sure there’s stuff for sale there.  Some pretty erotic CD’s.  It’s also a blog, and perhaps the start of a message board.  A fun stop.  Bring a box of Kleenex if your easily stimulated by sounds!  Actually there’s presently an entry about orgasm, which makes for a nice read through to or from my last entry. 

So your looking for something a little heavier perhaps.  How about JizzMaker, Blog that make you Jizz.  A little on the heavy side for me.  When I think of blogs, for some reason I think of written work.  This is more graphic than anything else.  If that’s what you’re into go for it!  Looks and feels pretty safe whatever I clicked on didn’t stir my Zone Alarm!

Moving right along to to extreme bizarre now, voted 2006 winner of the best Sex Blog category on The Best of Blogs:  The Free Porn Times.   I thought the front page was fun, but after a couple of links I thought my computer might catch STM’s so I surfed back to safer ground.  Yeah your probably saying no sense of adventure, fine you try it !

Perhaps the subject of the female orgasm should best discussed by a woman, I feel I have enough views and material to provide an informative post.  Women’s sexuality is still suppressed today in many cultures, leaving way for the male to get his rocks off.  That would be a study on its own, a lot simpler and for another day.

In the more developed cultures, women have had a voice in the last 40 or 50 years, resulting in many changes in society, including sexual evolution.  A lot of progress has been achieved, with a lot more progress to go.  Sexual feelings are not to be suppressed any more.  They are to be explored.  Still, not necessarily what prim and proper young ladies are taught as they grow up.

In a sexual relationship, it takes two to tangle or tango!  The male partner needs as much information on the subject of female sexuality and how to please a woman, as she does.  As recent as 35 years ago, I know for a fact, this information wasn’t yet available to young men nor to many young ladies.  I hope in time, this is changing. 

The Internet, being part of the school yard today, is hopefully helping change this.  Certainly parents never sit down with their children to discuss how to please their partner.  Sexuality is something one must discover on their own.  The school system offers some basic rules, and hands out condoms now a day.  Not exactly a guide on sexuality!

There is too much scientific, official information out there about the subject of female orgasm.  Not enough is out there or being done about the socialization aspect of it.  Yes I’m very aware of how much porn is out there displaying multiple orgasms.  But this is not where I’m going, it’s not going to cut it, vis a vis what I’m discussing here.

I’ve written plenty and given plenty of links in this blog, to find good sexual articles and photos.  Yes there will be links at the end of this post that are graphic and offer podcasts about the Big O.  But do you know how to make it happen?  Chances are if you’re a young lady, and you want to explore you’ll figure it out, and get there.  Don’t forget there’s never too much information.  Clitoral stimulation is likely the first way to go.  There’s nothing wrong with a good toy either, a safe and quiet environment and a few fantasies.

If you’re a young man, use your resources before you venture out into the sexual world.  I can guarantee you; you’ll cum before you know it.  But will you please your partner?  Will you reciprocate and give her as pleasing an experience?  Will she look forward to her next experience with you?

Guys, share the experience, don’t let it be a one way street.  Discuss with your girlfriend your intentions.  Let her know you want to take her to the moon and back.  Perhaps in a more subtle way.  Ask her what she likes and also what she doesn’t like.  Just because it maybe part of your plan or approach, to perform in a certain way, doesn’t necessarily mean it’s hers.

There’s nothing greater and scarier than the first time.  Nobody knows what to expect or how things will turn out.  That’s why there’s masturbation.  To bring these personal experiences into a shared relationship is a delicate matter.  Still we all manage, the goal of this post is just to give you better tools to do it right.  To make sure you know about your partner’s needs.

True, even as I look today on the Internet, much of the information is geared towards registering for a course or buying a certain book.  I certainly don’t discourage these avenues, but there is enough free information, for both guys and gals, out there to get going.

I’ve tried to include very pertinant resources in the above post and I hope some of you that trip on this benefit from it.  I hope it steers your life in the right direction.  Here are other links that maybe of interest including some audio so that you may recognize the final destination!

 Podcast aimed at crossing over from girlhood to womanhood:  Claiming your sex.

 An advanced podcast about G-spot Orgasms.

 Orgasm Podcasts  1, 2, 3, 4, from podgasm.org.

 Lastly, a Real Media short clip was produced by C H U M Television in Canada.  Most browsers today can handle this format.  The clip is on their website.  Why am I featuring it?  Because I think they’re an eye opener for your own sexual views about Orgasm.