Changing the Channel: The Female Orgasm

Perhaps the subject of the female orgasm should best discussed by a woman, I feel I have enough views and material to provide an informative post.  Women’s sexuality is still suppressed today in many cultures, leaving way for the male to get his rocks off.  That would be a study on its own, a lot simpler and for another day.

In the more developed cultures, women have had a voice in the last 40 or 50 years, resulting in many changes in society, including sexual evolution.  A lot of progress has been achieved, with a lot more progress to go.  Sexual feelings are not to be suppressed any more.  They are to be explored.  Still, not necessarily what prim and proper young ladies are taught as they grow up.

In a sexual relationship, it takes two to tangle or tango!  The male partner needs as much information on the subject of female sexuality and how to please a woman, as she does.  As recent as 35 years ago, I know for a fact, this information wasn’t yet available to young men nor to many young ladies.  I hope in time, this is changing. 

The Internet, being part of the school yard today, is hopefully helping change this.  Certainly parents never sit down with their children to discuss how to please their partner.  Sexuality is something one must discover on their own.  The school system offers some basic rules, and hands out condoms now a day.  Not exactly a guide on sexuality!

There is too much scientific, official information out there about the subject of female orgasm.  Not enough is out there or being done about the socialization aspect of it.  Yes I’m very aware of how much porn is out there displaying multiple orgasms.  But this is not where I’m going, it’s not going to cut it, vis a vis what I’m discussing here.

I’ve written plenty and given plenty of links in this blog, to find good sexual articles and photos.  Yes there will be links at the end of this post that are graphic and offer podcasts about the Big O.  But do you know how to make it happen?  Chances are if you’re a young lady, and you want to explore you’ll figure it out, and get there.  Don’t forget there’s never too much information.  Clitoral stimulation is likely the first way to go.  There’s nothing wrong with a good toy either, a safe and quiet environment and a few fantasies.

If you’re a young man, use your resources before you venture out into the sexual world.  I can guarantee you; you’ll cum before you know it.  But will you please your partner?  Will you reciprocate and give her as pleasing an experience?  Will she look forward to her next experience with you?

Guys, share the experience, don’t let it be a one way street.  Discuss with your girlfriend your intentions.  Let her know you want to take her to the moon and back.  Perhaps in a more subtle way.  Ask her what she likes and also what she doesn’t like.  Just because it maybe part of your plan or approach, to perform in a certain way, doesn’t necessarily mean it’s hers.

There’s nothing greater and scarier than the first time.  Nobody knows what to expect or how things will turn out.  That’s why there’s masturbation.  To bring these personal experiences into a shared relationship is a delicate matter.  Still we all manage, the goal of this post is just to give you better tools to do it right.  To make sure you know about your partner’s needs.

True, even as I look today on the Internet, much of the information is geared towards registering for a course or buying a certain book.  I certainly don’t discourage these avenues, but there is enough free information, for both guys and gals, out there to get going.

I’ve tried to include very pertinant resources in the above post and I hope some of you that trip on this benefit from it.  I hope it steers your life in the right direction.  Here are other links that maybe of interest including some audio so that you may recognize the final destination!

 Podcast aimed at crossing over from girlhood to womanhood:  Claiming your sex.

 An advanced podcast about G-spot Orgasms.

 Orgasm Podcasts  1, 2, 3, 4, from podgasm.org.

 Lastly, a Real Media short clip was produced by C H U M Television in Canada.  Most browsers today can handle this format.  The clip is on their website.  Why am I featuring it?  Because I think they’re an eye opener for your own sexual views about Orgasm.