I joined MyBlogLog, if you’re curious, you can take a peek at the bottom of the sidebar.  Still kind of clunky setting it up as far as communities and tags.  Another blog toy!  Some blogs are about exposure, some not.

AlexSuze always on a roll.  Recently I’ve caught some video cam action over there, check it out!  Also there’s a spin off blog just for adult toys, so if you need any naughty ideas drop in and visit.  The fun part, is you get to read real people’s reaction about what they’ve just bought.  Not just the usual here’s a picture $9.99 add to shopping cart. 

Always Aroused Girl has a sparkly new home on Wordpress.  Very nice indeed.  Please update your links. 

Have you ever visited Sexualsong? A good find!  Sure there’s stuff for sale there.  Some pretty erotic CD’s.  It’s also a blog, and perhaps the start of a message board.  A fun stop.  Bring a box of Kleenex if your easily stimulated by sounds!  Actually there’s presently an entry about orgasm, which makes for a nice read through to or from my last entry. 

So your looking for something a little heavier perhaps.  How about JizzMaker, Blog that make you Jizz.  A little on the heavy side for me.  When I think of blogs, for some reason I think of written work.  This is more graphic than anything else.  If that’s what you’re into go for it!  Looks and feels pretty safe whatever I clicked on didn’t stir my Zone Alarm!

Moving right along to to extreme bizarre now, voted 2006 winner of the best Sex Blog category on The Best of Blogs:  The Free Porn Times.   I thought the front page was fun, but after a couple of links I thought my computer might catch STM’s so I surfed back to safer ground.  Yeah your probably saying no sense of adventure, fine you try it !

Perhaps the subject of the female orgasm should best discussed by a woman, I feel I have enough views and material to provide an informative post.  Women’s sexuality is still suppressed today in many cultures, leaving way for the male to get his rocks off.  That would be a study on its own, a lot simpler and for another day.

In the more developed cultures, women have had a voice in the last 40 or 50 years, resulting in many changes in society, including sexual evolution.  A lot of progress has been achieved, with a lot more progress to go.  Sexual feelings are not to be suppressed any more.  They are to be explored.  Still, not necessarily what prim and proper young ladies are taught as they grow up.

In a sexual relationship, it takes two to tangle or tango!  The male partner needs as much information on the subject of female sexuality and how to please a woman, as she does.  As recent as 35 years ago, I know for a fact, this information wasn’t yet available to young men nor to many young ladies.  I hope in time, this is changing. 

The Internet, being part of the school yard today, is hopefully helping change this.  Certainly parents never sit down with their children to discuss how to please their partner.  Sexuality is something one must discover on their own.  The school system offers some basic rules, and hands out condoms now a day.  Not exactly a guide on sexuality!

There is too much scientific, official information out there about the subject of female orgasm.  Not enough is out there or being done about the socialization aspect of it.  Yes I’m very aware of how much porn is out there displaying multiple orgasms.  But this is not where I’m going, it’s not going to cut it, vis a vis what I’m discussing here.

I’ve written plenty and given plenty of links in this blog, to find good sexual articles and photos.  Yes there will be links at the end of this post that are graphic and offer podcasts about the Big O.  But do you know how to make it happen?  Chances are if you’re a young lady, and you want to explore you’ll figure it out, and get there.  Don’t forget there’s never too much information.  Clitoral stimulation is likely the first way to go.  There’s nothing wrong with a good toy either, a safe and quiet environment and a few fantasies.

If you’re a young man, use your resources before you venture out into the sexual world.  I can guarantee you; you’ll cum before you know it.  But will you please your partner?  Will you reciprocate and give her as pleasing an experience?  Will she look forward to her next experience with you?

Guys, share the experience, don’t let it be a one way street.  Discuss with your girlfriend your intentions.  Let her know you want to take her to the moon and back.  Perhaps in a more subtle way.  Ask her what she likes and also what she doesn’t like.  Just because it maybe part of your plan or approach, to perform in a certain way, doesn’t necessarily mean it’s hers.

There’s nothing greater and scarier than the first time.  Nobody knows what to expect or how things will turn out.  That’s why there’s masturbation.  To bring these personal experiences into a shared relationship is a delicate matter.  Still we all manage, the goal of this post is just to give you better tools to do it right.  To make sure you know about your partner’s needs.

True, even as I look today on the Internet, much of the information is geared towards registering for a course or buying a certain book.  I certainly don’t discourage these avenues, but there is enough free information, for both guys and gals, out there to get going.

I’ve tried to include very pertinant resources in the above post and I hope some of you that trip on this benefit from it.  I hope it steers your life in the right direction.  Here are other links that maybe of interest including some audio so that you may recognize the final destination!

 Podcast aimed at crossing over from girlhood to womanhood:  Claiming your sex.

 An advanced podcast about G-spot Orgasms.

 Orgasm Podcasts  1, 2, 3, 4, from podgasm.org.

 Lastly, a Real Media short clip was produced by C H U M Television in Canada.  Most browsers today can handle this format.  The clip is on their website.  Why am I featuring it?  Because I think they’re an eye opener for your own sexual views about Orgasm.

Many users have made the move to Wordpress in the last year.  I’m no expert, but if you follow some basic rules, there shouldn’t be anything you cannot overcome. 

I haven’t upgraded this blog yet but I did upgrade my DH Original which has let’s say, a little more personal family oriented content! 

The blog loaded and navigated successfully, but when I tried to access the Admin Panel/Login - It gave me:  

Fatal error: Call to undefined function: wp_get_current_user() in /…Domain…Blah .Blah/wp-includes/capabilities.php on line 446.

Hope the following tips and findings can save the headaches for some of you.

Lesson #1  Make sure you always make a back up before you upgrade.  Full back up includes:   Directory structure on the server and database.

Lesson #2  Disable plugins, as instructed by Wordpress before the upgrade.

Luckily, I was able to dig up a solution…

The problem arises, if you are using certain King Plugins.  You can get more info on this at Wordpress.org.  The new WP 2.2 has built in widgets, which conflicts due to the old directory structure.

Here is the Solution if you are after the fact.  You don’t have to re-invent the wheel:

I found the problem.

If you’re using a plugin or widget that must be installed in the folder of the old widget plugin, that plugin will break everything.

Now that WP 2.2 has widgets built-in there’s no need for the old widgets plugin. However, a few plugins/widgets are built to be installed in the same directory as the "widgets.php" file. Now that that file has been moved out of the plugins folder, problems arise.

Your problem plugins may differ, but I broke my blog with the King Text and King Links plugins/widgets. They must reside in the old widgets folder in the plugins folder. Now that widgets are incorporated in WP 2.2 and no longer a plugin, those two break and will take your blog down with them.

Fix: Copy your old widgets folder to your local hard drive as backup. Delete the widgets folder from your blog’s server. (If you haven’y upgraded your database, do so.) Reload your dashboard. Now you should be fine.

Sadly, the King widgets series (which powers my entire sidebar) needs an update to work with 2.2 from what I can see. No updates exist at the time of this writing.

Edelen  has other solutions in store if you care to read up on them.

As for my pending upgrade, I guess I’ll have to tweak my other blog until I’m satisfied with the results.  Then, I’ll upgrade.

Good luck to you.

It’s about the thrill, the novelty, it’s about discovering, it’s about not getting caught.  It’s about fresh meat, it’s about the conquest and it’s by no means a new idea.  Is swinging the same as cheating, but with a permit? 

Monogamy vs Polygamy?  sure it’s a cultural thing, but it’s there.

This short clip was produced by C H U M Television in Canada.  The clip is on their website.  Why am I featuring them?  Because I think they’re an eye opener for your own sexual views.

Here’s a clip on the subject of infedlity from S E X  T V.

Related articles are numerous.  Here’s one.  This discussion can go in so many directions, I think I’ll stop here.   

Tough statistics, but 50 to 60% of men and woman will end up cheating.  So where do you stand?  (as far as you know).

Just freshened up the gallery with a few pin ups from Jon Hul.  The one below is my favourite.  I first caught a glimpse of it last year on Sexualité.  I feel some new banners coming on!

Bio from WikiPedia…

He was born in Pittsburgh, PA and later grew up in California and Nevada. He attended Orr Junior High School in Las Vegas, NV in 1971. In 1974, he attended Valley High School where he studied ceramics, oil painting, watercolors, and commercial design.

    * The Art of Jon Hul (2003) (ISBN 0-86562-082-2)
    * The Jon Hul Sketchbook Volume One (2006) (ISBN 0-86562-136-5)

His books are available through Amazon.com .  Some of his artwork at the Erotic Art Network.

The last two to three years have been an eye opener for me.  Starting with an innocent search on the topic of DH - which can range from Dear Husband to Dumb Husband and I’m sure many in between.  Most searches ended up with message board gossips, but some pinged back on blogs. 

As far as medias go, I hadn’t really gone in to the blog thing.  Mind you I may have been, amongst  one of the first 1,000,000 registerd users on blogspot in 2003.  It wasn’t long before the intellectual side of my sexual appetite was stirred up as the DH factor + a key word brought back unexpected results. 

Results, I was pleased to entertain or let myself be entertained by!  The concept wasn’t graphic.  The concept was:  many men and women and couples writing about their sexual experiences and preferences.    A lot more pleasurable to me than a gazillion porn pictures.

I started reporting back my findings and crediting the authors through this blog.  I took immense pleasure in feedback.  Feedback about being noticed.  Cool, I thought and I just kept at it.  The rest is history!

Lately, I have found stimulating resources on television.  No, not during prime time of course, but there are some good shows out there.  Yes, there’s also a lot of trash out there. 

It is Dr. Ruth to your left.  WTF you’re probably saying.  Not that I ever cared for her show, still she would be the pioneer of bringing sex to television in open discussion type.  It deserves some credit.  Where as Dr.Ruth appeared on NBC, more recent shows are presented on "cable" channels.

Of course, this is a totally non interactive excersise from the viewer’s point.  Blogging gets you right in there, participating commenting writing your own…

Starting today, I’ll be featuring excerpt feeds from shows I’ve come across.  These expose stimulating topics worth covering.

The series of short clips I’ll be featuring was produced by C H U M Television in Canada.  The clips have  been posted on their website.  Why am I featuring them?  Because I think they’re an eye opener for your own sexual views.  

Alternate Sexual Lifestyles 

Here’s a clip giving views about bringing in other participants into your sex life.  You’ll hear different sides. 

So, would you?  Have you? 

We haven’t and that’s fine for both of us.  It’s been discussed.

Of course I like to learn and discover new sides of sexuality.  I had never heard of the term SoftSwapper.  Now I guess I’ll have to do a little more research on this!  Here’s my first result worth posting on SoftSwapper from Wife Swap.co.uk

Since I’m taking a couple of extra long week end, perhaps you’ll get to see a little more of me over the next few weeks!