Category — Discussions

What man doesn’t get dizzy going to the beach and looking at the decor? It’s a lot of work in general for the ladies to look like a million bucks. There are a lot of details most of us don’t think about. We just bathe and grovel at the splendour! Getting ready to go to the beach? Let’s do this from the bottom up. For many ladies out there, involves extensive pedicures. Face it, you never know how you may compromise your feet.  After the beach, if you have a foot fetish or love to give or receive a foot massage you need not worry about your feet.  After all you’ve just had a pedicure!

Working our way up from the feet, we find the legs.  Every woman out there who will consider beach and bikini time will strive for the perfect legs.  Suits up nicely for a cool evening out too.   The legs are often the path way up to an incredible playground.

Which bring me to my next subject.  Waxing, if you’re going to wax you legs, are you going to wax all the way up?  Certainly takes away all chances of those dark get aways from your bathing suit doesn’t it?  It also turns the ladies into a real adventure. 

Ok so you say there are alternate ways.  I’m sure you’re right.   I found this series of commercials, for a product I haven’t obviously tested but it may be the alternate way. 

Get back to me on that would you.  I’d love to hear all about it!The abdomen a sexy playground, hours at the gym and dieting for many will keep it picture perfect. 

Just above, boobs!  It’s all about presentation isn’t it?  What suits you best, what kind of mood are you in?  What colour?

Turning things around, there’s also that sexy back.  Some of those summer evening gowns can reveal a woman’s back in spectacular ways.  Going a little lower than the back is the bum.  Another area about presentation… And for some the least enhancement the better.

No doubt the ladies know too well what the sun can do to a healthy body, so proceed with caution.  Too much sun can give you a nasty sun stroke amongst other things like skin cancer.  This advice goes for the guys too.  So use  the right sunscreen SPF for you and your family, and you’ll stay beautiful!

Have a great summer!

There are now so many blogs out there, if you want to read erotica.  Just drop into ABH and you can surf by whatever flavour you choose.  Adopted and hosted by Ales&Suze this is a  must one stop for written erotica.  If you would like to go into different directions, drop right in to Alex&Suze.  There you will find many other projects they host such as A-Rouse and Toy Reviews, thats just to get you started. 

Written work doesn’t age if it’s well done.  Here is Before You Get that Blowjob from me.   From December 2008, really not that long ago.  if you look at older entries, there are other gems  there too.  Also in the form of directory, you’ll find Sextails.com full of goodies. Also broken down into categories, the stories are submitted or posted.  You stay within the site.

As well,from last year, The 5 Minute Guide to Female Ejaculation.  For a good snicker, someone re-posted a 1955 entry which has stirred some.  The Good Wife’s Guide. 

It’s easier to go back to familiar places, than to explore.  I make it point to venture out with tools such as Stumble Upon which always brings back surprises.  There’s also good old Google, with the safe filter off.  Not at the office of course!  If you’re not already on Stumble Upon I suggest you hop on.  You can customize results.  The more you get into it, it learns what you like.  Up to 90% of the results, I would say.  Just a click away.

Speaking of Stumble Upon, I never knew there were so many amateur movie places.  Hey! Some are not so amateurs either.  I’ve posted a few of my finds this year.  I think my next post I’ll exposed the movie places I’ve Stumbled Upon.  It should keep a few of you busy!

We talked about Female ejaculation, how about male ejaculation?  Here you go if you’re into sex toys, check this one out!

The recent merger of Sirius and XM Radio has saved this venture of satellite radio from bankruptcy, as I understand.  Apparently, I don’t undersstand as much as I thought.  As I evaluate the jump into Satellite Radio, I’m forced to look at why it almost didn’t make it.  It certainly has a little something for everyone; From commercial free music to Comedy, sports, News, Bible thumping, Boy stations, Girl stations, Music Stations broken down into different categories, appealing to different moods or peeps.
 
I see on the US side of things Sirius Radio and XM Radio, with both .com websites offer slightly different programming, yet they appear to collaborate.  On the .ca’s I see two different websites that carry similar programming with the exception of 3 or 4 stations namely Howard Stern, Playboy and perhaps Martha Stewart.

Certain stations, I see, are not offered north of the border.  Is that a CRTC issue?  Since I’m not sure I emailed XMradio.ca .   Let’s see what I get as a response. 

<<EDIT>> I got a polite response from XM Canada saying:  " Unfortunately, the Howard Stern stations 100 and 101 are limited to Sirius and XM US with a special programming package. We do not offer Howard Stern in XM Canada but we have our very own set of shock jocks that might do it for you: Opie and Anthony. You can find them on channel 202, The Virus.  " .  <<EDIT>>After a whole day’s research I am satisfied with this answer.

Got to get this whole issue out of my system.  Or did I?  I don’t mind Canadian content, but leave the selling feature into it.  As I dig deeper, it looks like the two sattelite networks are not merged in Canada.  Sirius Canada does offer the above mentionned stations.

I’ve listened to Howard Stern, he can get me going and he can turn me off.  It wouldn’t be a great loss, but I certainly would like the choice of listening to Howard Stern or not, uncensored.  This week end, I’ll see what else is on there that could be Adult related.  Not that it has to be a requirement of satellite radio, but I am curious.  XM Canada does not offer these stations, or my car came with the wrong satellite radio installed in it.  Despite the above reply from XM Canada, my findings show that the Howard Stern stations are available on Sirius Canada.

I also don’t like any regularity board to make decisions for me. I’m in favour of Canadian Content, I’m in favour of the linguistic availability in this country.  I should be aware of the above two points.  When I television surf late weekends on the regulated movie channels, If I don’t want to watch the approved porn, I have a choice.  I can change the channel.  I can even block it, during those hours.  I choose, I decide.  Why can’t the same be done on XM Radio?  I think this board is important, I support the CRTC, I just don’t like the way they go about certain things.  Be consistant!  Anyone heard of ONI?  There’s an eye opener for everyone.  In the end, this doesn’t appear to be a CRTC issue, but my rant still stands for other matters.

So why isn’t satelite radio  making it?  Well by the time you acquire the hardware, you’re likely at least another $100 down.  Hardware is certainly to study here.  There are a lot of options.  Some as low as $35, others as high as $500.  Depends how you want to go.

Here’s how promising this was.  When the hardware came out, some measured it up to the Ipod.  Many people don’t know, but the Ipod wasn’t the first mp3 player or digital music player.  I was using a product called Thompson’s Lyra 40 gigs 2 years before the Ipod came out.  Apple just worked harder at making it everyone love it, creating tons of accessories for it and it worked.

Sexy radio resources is  a wide statement.  Do you want Sexy music?  Do you want a talk show with its host getting off on the air?  You may as well download a couple of adult podcasts!  Playboy Radio is already out there, I’m not sure of its success, because it hasn’t been an issue for me apart from a couple of bloggers who made a go of it.  To get an uncensored program guide I found this listing over on XMfan .com. 

Personally, I’ve enjoyed my free 7 days on line.  It’s given me a chance to explore.  As for the car subscription, it’s for 3 months free.  I have time to decide, but I doubt I’ll let it go having the hardware in the car.  So that will be about $14.99 a month.  Unfortunately, I can’t take it in the house without an additional fee ($9.99.)  So, for $25.00/month I could have XM radio  where I want it.  Just not the way I expected it with all the stations.  Oh yeah, and it also looks like they throw in the on line for free, once you take a regular package. 
That is all the stations I assumed it should come with.  Since I was under the impression both stations had merged to avoid bankruptcy and I would benefit from merged programming.  Well such is not the case.  The merger was only in the US.  So in the US, whether you had one hardware or the other, you now benefit from both programming.  Not in Canada. 

At least not yet, too many kinks to iron out.  A lot of what I’ve read favours XM to have better programming overall.  The NHL broadcast seems to be an issue as to the percentage of ownership here since XM has acquired the rights to broadcast the games.  I’m sure there are other issues too.

For the time being it looks like different car company carry different hardware.  Some new cars ship with Sirius others with XM.  Mine shipped with XM Canada. 

Truth is, in the morning, on my 15 minute drive to work at 7.00Am, I like to catch the news and the local talk shows.  Our latest conversion from Mix 96 to Virgin Radio is adequate for me.  Virgin made very few staff changes and beefed up programming.  Cut local talent and stuck in some syndicated shows.  The point is commercial free radio is lovely!  Sure I can spend hours converting my CD’s to MP3s and making play lists and what not, pushing a button of choice on my satellite radio might be just as pleasant.  I can even listen to Grateful Dead all day if I want.  At night, the ride can be up to an hour….XM Radio please!

To make a long story short, as Howard Stern himself would probably say… "As for Howard Stern, he can go fly a kite for now."  (except he wouldn’t quite say it like that now would he?).

Before jumping in, consider where you live, look at your hardware options, look at your programming options to make sure you’ll really get what you’re looking for.  See if you’re still willing to dish out for it.  In Australia there is Stripe Radio, In the UK, as I understand it be patient, it’s a work in progress, In Japan Mobaho.  If you have access to interenet, no problem.

 A sad day yesterday was.  Ana has called it quits.  At least for this venture.  Formerly Sexuality on Blogger, Ana’s skills amazed me and many others I bet, through her writing and posts.  Mostly I’d like to say thank you for sharing your thoughts with us. 

All the best to you and your future plans.

On the bright side you leave us with Lucrezia  Magazine, which is a fabulouson line Magazine.  I guess we’ll catch you over there.    In the mean time, for the rest of us, I hope you leave your blog up as it contains some great posts.

I call it "digging in my basket" because my basket of links and want to review is so full I’ve had to find a way to organize it or re-organize it.  Along the way some became obsolete, so I ditched those and some became fantabulous and are still alive.

  What I find difficult sometimes is to ditch a blog entry because the blog itself is no longer active.  For what ever reason, the author has left the blog running. 

Hooked on Quack maybe the first country adult blog that I find!  Done on Blogger, it has a side bar filled of nteresting links, including an outdated one about one of Obasso’s Hawaiian shirts, entitled More Than Just a Shirt or Osshirt.   Hooked on Quack is authored by Q, She keeps it real with everything from HNT to gossip about her daughters quizzes and much more.  Check it out

 My next one is a bit of a gem, no pun intended.  Written on Wordpress.com and authored by Saphire, Elegant Smut I would guess may have had another blog at one point, but I haven’t figured it out yet.  This blog is about written content.  Very well done and organized.  Have I reviewed it before I don’t think so.

I see some sugasm format in there, I see some Fleshbot links, all the way to the buzz club flag for the free toy give away.  Lots to keep you entertained. 

Northern Lights and Sleepless Nights done by Heather and the Fat Controller.  Enough entries to count over 500 running through the last 4 years not bad and some very good entries.  Why didn’t I review it before?  You’ll get it all, from A to Z…  the Sugasm format, to the HNT, to the toy reviews.  Have Fun.

 I once posted on the subject of "Bitch" I think I forgot a link.  Take a peek at Bitch Rants Blog. The posts are far apart but certainly worth reading.  Whether you agree with her rants is a different story, but Trixie writes very well.   With over 20 blogs done on blogger to her credit, she knows her way around.  Go through Trixie’s profile.  Some are over 6 years old, some just have a few entries.

I enjoyed digging in my basket, and I’ll be digging some more over the next few weeks.  by the time I’m done, I should have the skeleton and content for an adult reference  or directory.  Yes there are many out there, so there will be one more.

The error 404 you may have encountered was due to a Cpanel upgrade and DNS.  I never thought they could be related and I don’t understand the full story I’m being told.  I just understand that I had little service for 2 weeks while this was being resolved.  Worst of all is one of the addon domains had no email.

All seems to be back to normal, for the time being.

The whole premise of this blog was to explore clandestine postings of folks reporting on their naughty time.  Searches had to be precise and it was a fun challenge.  From 2004 to 2006 I kept my gig growing as a community of bloggers grew out of the wood work.

Talented writers became creative and posted a mix of fiction and reality.  Many still do. Many have moved on and closed shop.  Earlier this month, Nina from lazygeisha.com put her pencil down.  I wish her luck with her new project, The Teahouse, a message board intended for the ladies.  Still under the umbrella of lazygeisha as a domain.  There’s a forum gateway from the blog’s menu.

Some of her archives remain over at the lazygeisha.com.  With her own writing style, reflecting her Japanese culture Nina kept the latter running for over 3 years.  Regular posts, worth reading. The lazygeisha remains a pleasure to sift through.

As for DH Spicy, it keeps on going, now bringing different things to the table.  Related to sexuality and desire.  Exploring venues of photography, galleries and adult sites.  Search engines can be tailored to bring back to the table exactly what you want now.  The challenge becomes separating the repetitive porn from the tasty stuff, and that has become my new objective.

I hope you enjoy this new direction. It will still bring back many written blogs as that always remains in the corner of my eye.